Are you familiar with the phrase “one sided love”?! Have you ever been in love with some girl and never let her know how you feel?! Ever been in a situation when you had a crush on your best friend’s boyfriend?! Felt something really great about someone you’re supposed to be just friends with?! Ok! I guess you all know what I’m talkin’ about here, but of course not all of you have been put in such situations. But let’s talk about those who’ve experienced this thing- the one sided love…
So, you’re in love with this girl.. or let’s say you’ve been feeling these weird fuzzy emotions about her, you enjoy spending time with her, you can’t stand being away from her, you’re really crazy about that girl and you’d just die to be with her.. Yet!! You’ve decided to hold your feelings inside, never tell her anything and just live on those few moments that get you together every now and then!!
What the hell is this kinda life?!! Can you really live with that?! I know there must be a reason you can’t tell the people you love how you feel, after all no one’s that naïve to just let happiness slip away from them. So, let’s get this straight; maybe you can’t tell her cause you think she’s too good for you, right? Then how much will it hurt you if you just had some faith in yourself, pulled yourself together, and asked her out?! I mean nobody’s perfect. You could be rejected, so what?! You’d know now at least once and for all that you can’t be together and move on, instead of hanging like this. There’re millions of other girls out there, you just have to open your eyes and stop focusing your eyes on her now.
Ok, what else?! Hmm.. She’s with another guy?! Come on!! Let her outta your mind then, she’s not yours. Or if you wanted to wait till she’s broken up to swoop in and try your luck, then be my guest :D. No, seriously just let it go and don’t put yourself in these love triangles, they’re no good for anyone trust me. She doesn’t love you, the way you love her?! Other than she’s told you that herself, then you better get out there and tell her how you wanna be with her.. she might be feeling the same and just waiting for a signal, who knows?! And if you were really good friends and you don’t wanna ruin your friendship by taking this step when she’s not there yet, you can always try to make joke about it and I’m sure you’ll get to know how she feels from her reactions..
Do anything for God’s sake other than remaining silent. You really have nothing to lose; you’ll either get together cause she turned out to be feeling the same, or remain friends cause she’s not there yet perhaps, or else you’ll just have to let her go and move on with your life. So you’d better just say it =).
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